Yes, I know what you mean, and I'm sorry it happened. I simply ended the discussion with my Amazing Listmom Powers (TM), apologizing to all people who were hurt (you were not the only one). I'm afraid we of Teh Ultimate Geekdom are a little too judgemental at times, and I'm not always an exception from it. Again, I'm very sorry, especially because it was my post that started the whole thing, however unintentionally.